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Step 1

The basics

Full name Age City & country you're based in Cultural background for example Nigerian, Ghanaian, Kenyan What do you do? (work / study) You're single right now, right?

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Step 2

Why you're here

Why are you ready to meet someone right now? What does "marriage-minded" actually mean to you? Would you relocate for the right person? Where's realistic for you?

Step 3

A bit of you

What's a good Saturday look like for you? What are you building toward in the next 5 years? What would your best friend say is your worst habit? What have your past relationships taught you? What's actually non-negotiable for you in a partner, and what's just a preference? What's one thing you learned about yourself from your last relationship? What's a dealbreaker for you?

Step 4

A little more, quickly

Age range you'd consider How important is faith to you in a partner? Do you want kids (or already have)? How close are you with your family, and how much do they factor into big decisions?

Step 5

Values, roles and real life

How do you picture sharing the load with a partner? Money, home, children. If the two of you disagreed about who does what, how would you want that handled? What does financial partnership look like to you? If one of you earned a lot more than the other, would that change anything for you? How much does it matter that a partner's family and community values line up with yours? What's something from how you were raised that you want to carry forward, and something you'd do differently? How do you handle conflict, and what does support look like when you're struggling? How do you imagine splitting the parenting, if children are part of the picture?